What do you like best about yourself? While perusing the internet, I came across this question on multiple pages so I decided to give it some thought. Like most people, there are plenty of lines in my story that I would like to change- my waistline, my bust-line, my bottom line, just to name a few. Overall, though, I think I have a fairly healthy self view. I like me. I am a ‘glass half-full’ kind of girl by nature, and I like that about myself.
But as I thought and wrote about this more, I remembered a line from one of my September journal entries I just reread a few days ago: I think my optimism and idealism, my hope and ‘look for the good in others’ mindset has gotten me into trouble yet again. I can clearly recall my emotional state of unrest and anxiety in the taxing, overwhelming situation about which I was writing. I was also very frustrated that I could not turn off the Pollyanna in me. I was angry that I could not communicate what I was feeling rather than what I believed.
During that time everyone kept telling me about how great it was that I could keep 'such a positive, gracious, hopeful attitude’. All I really wanted was a reprieve, relief from the stress, for someone to rescue me from the mayhem and foolishness. I prayed for God to remove the burden. I hoped for the problem to just disappear. I wanted someone else to see that I was wilting, instead people said things like ‘way to keep persevering’, ‘way to be a problem-solver, ‘thanks for looking for gems rather than stones.’ I wanted to be able to say “This really stinks! It’s really hard, and I really CANNOT handle it!”. But that is not how I am known. People expect me to give my all, to be faithful, prayerful and to stay in the fight until something changes- for the better. The truth is and always has been that I expect this of myself, too. Even in the middle of all the woes and anxieties, I could not stop believing that things would get better. I could not stop searching for answers. I could not give up or give in. I could not communicate that my glass was half-empty because that’s not really what I believed.
I know God is at work. I know that hope is a game-changer and love does conquer all. I believe there is a solution to every problem, a possibility for growth and change for even the most challenging of us. I guess the thing I like best about myself is that I am a perpetual optimist with a desire to see and to do good in my little world. Yes, this view does get me into trouble sometimes- making people think I can handle a lot more than I maybe actually can or should. Over time, I have grown a little less idealistic than in my youth. I know that life does not always go the way I believe it will, no matter how much I believe. Nonetheless, I also know that having a positive, proactive outlook makes a greater impact than the opposite approach. Looking for the best gives me strength to keep going. So here I am- staying the course, pursuing hope and embracing optimism. I think I look pretty good in rose-colored glasses.
For each of us there is something unique that we add to the world. We have all heard it before. It is true! Rather than self-deprecating, spend a few minutes self-appreciating. What is it about you that you like best? Chances are appreciating yourself will cause you to be more of yourself. Being yourself may invite challenges or obstacles. It may get you into trouble sometimes. You can handle it. By being more of yourself, you will empower others to do the same. And without even having to try very hard, you’ll have made your world a better place. Simply by being you.
Life is an echo. What you send out, comes back. What you sow, you reap. What you give, you get. What you see in others, exists in you. - Zig Ziglar